We each have one life to live, with an unknown number of days to fill.
Every choice we make shapes the life we create.
Yet so often, we let the world—or even our neighbor Susie—dictate how we spend our time, money, and energy.
But here’s the truth: you’re uniquely created, and your life should reflect that.
Living intentionally starts with defining what matters most to us.
Without this clarity, we default to living unintentionally—following others’ paths or simply reacting to the demands of the moment.
While that might work for Susie, it’s unlikely to lead to a life that feels truly fulfilling for you.
Your Values, Your Compass
What do you want?
Why does it matter to you?
And why does that matter to you? These questions are the foundation of intentional living.
Without clear answers, you risk prioritizing everything—which, ironically, means prioritizing nothing.
Intentional living means balancing your values across Time, Money, and Space.
This balance doesn’t mean perfection or equal weighting, but rather thoughtful allocation of your resources:
Time
Time is finite.
Allocate moments to nurture relationships, care for your health, and pursue personal and professional growth.
Even in busy seasons, micro-moments—like five minutes of stretching or reading with your child—can bring intention to the areas you value most.
Money
Budgeting, paying off debt, saving, investing, and legacy planning are all essential to support intentional money choices.
Neglecting money management doesn’t just hinder financial progress—it can prevent you from pursuing your big dreams that matter most.
For example, skipping daily budgeting can lead to spending on things that don’t align with your values (like an unplanned lunch out), instead of saving for what you truly desire (like a family vacation).
By managing your money intentionally, you create a foundation for financial freedom and the flexibility to align spending with your dreams—whether it’s a gym membership for health, training for career growth, or building experiences with loved ones.
Space
Your environment matters.
Decluttering and organizing your physical space creates peace and mental clarity.
A well-maintained home supports your mental well-being and frees up energy for other priorities.
When your space aligns with your values, it becomes a sanctuary, not a source of stress.
The Ripple Effect of Intentional Choices
Intentionality is interconnected.
To budget your money, you must allocate time.
To focus on personal development or health, you may need to invest financial resources.
These areas don’t exist in isolation—they intertwine to create a balanced, fulfilling life.
Neglecting intentionality in one area—for instance, your finances—can impact another, like missing the chance to spend time with your parents at their favorite band’s last performance.
Intentionality builds bridges between your priorities.
Choosing not to live intentionally is still a choice.
By default, it often leads to a life of unmet potential and dissatisfaction. You deserve better.
Living a Life You Love
Your life is unique.
Don’t blindly follow someone else’s path—honor your own by living fully aligned with the values you’ve defined.
And remember, it’s okay—and even necessary—to shift your focus as seasons change.
Balance doesn’t mean doing everything at once; it means showing up where it matters most at any given time.
Start small.
Take five minutes today to reflect on what you want, why it matters to you, and why that matters.
Identify your values and set your intentions. From there, intentional choices can naturally follow.
Having your values identified and listed will make your decluttering journey all the more easier.
Comment below with your values and intentions—you might just inspire someone else to dream big and take their first step toward intentional living.